It is cold tonight, stepping out onto the porch to return the pile of outer layers we gathered up throughout the day. Damp jackets. Grandma’s woolly crocheted hats. Knitted gloves too small already, my own handmade holiday gift last year to those little fingers, grown.
I don’t mean to, but I shiver. Days when I’ve been inside so much, only out to feed and water the animals and gather wood, days that I don’t really mind all that much because they are filled with the kind of still, quiet warming that I need in winter–just one of these days and the chill that wants to catch my skin and stay, in just seconds, shows me just how easy it is to soften.
And my mind wanders for a minute in the dark, the light burnt out a while back, in high summer when no light was needed, and still hoping to be replaced, to see a check next to its name on the long, winter to do list. I realize I don’t know. I’m not sure how soft to be.
But soft or not, I return into the arms of the fire full house, letting the wind and cold beat the last bit of life out of things as we wash the evening dishes, finish a thousand drawings, and put to bed so many tiny, household lives we’ve lived, today, this one winter’s day.
This Sunday, this Monday, they are the first relaxing days I have had in a long while. Since September. And these two, just the start. So many remain, days such as this.
This year, like every year, we find that we are not great at growing onions on this farm. Rather, it is like this–we don’t really know if we are great at it or not because limited space and time and the lure of the green onion to eat and sell all summer long always wins over the much more sensible idea that we should just let those onions grow. So that they might now remain, for winter. Every week, at market, I buy onions from much more sensible farmers, with much more land and a whole winters worth of alliums to caramelize in my skillet.
And for their sense, I am thankful.
But even though our larder doesn’t house them, our home does. Us, the onions, brought inside. Chill morning by brisk eve, winter is the fine task of pulling back the layers to reveal what grew in us this year. What is new there, what gone? Opposite the bundling we take on to go out the door, inside, we peel away all but the naked remains, the new seed of us. What will that look like? What will we have to offer the coming, new year?
The rest is shed and buried back in the ground, the old skins, like the plants we once were out under the sun. And my life, shaped and severed each season by these elements–sun, fire, earth, rain–at least I know how to grow it well, I think to myself. The longer I live here, the more well shaped I become. This land, these seasons, our little harvest, our life, it grows fuller with each and every winter that comes. And so, I let go, the wandering mind, and slip under the heavy pile of covers for the night. Faith can be as simple as this.
A pattern found worth trusting.